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Children Question Whether
 their Parent's Actions Are Abusive

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Post # 000004f8
I'm Child and I Think I'm being abused
From: .......
Remote Name: 4.224.123.35

Comments
My Mother Has slapped Me Before but not in a while i keep telling myself i will tell someone on the next time, she has also verbally acted out on me like yesterday at orientation for school i was being quiet and just standing next to my mother and she started yelling at me about how i wasnt acting like i knew her and why wasnt i looking happy and i was just standing I wasnt pouting or anything im very confused and i dont know what to do   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 000004fa
Re: I'm Child and I Think I'm being abused
From: 
Remote Name: 156.34.35.3

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You have only provided a little bit of information. To me, just what you said doesn't sound like abuse but it sounds like there is something going on? Has someone asked you to make a post on here or are you concerned about something that is going on in your life? Are you parent's divorcing? Whatever you do sweetie, just make sure that neither one of your parents tries to make you hate the other parent or make you say lies about the other parent. For sure, that is abuse. That is emotional abuse. You deserve to love and be loved by both of your parents. If you are stuck in the middle of a battle that rightfully should belong to your parents, talk to someone about it...perhaps your teacher. Tell them the truth and tell them how you feel. I hope you will be ok.  (Last changed: February 26, 2006 )

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Post # 00000613
Re: I'm Child and I Think I'm being abused
From: 
Remote Name: 207.63.229.3

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well if she is doing this often you really need to tell someone. It might turn into something worse and you might deeply regret not saying anything  (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post #  000009b1
Re: I'm Child and I Think I'm being abused
From: brittney
Remote Name: 12.215.228.110

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this sounds so kinda like im in, i dont know if im being abused either my father has slaped me 5 times in a row and has also chased me up the stairs and has told me not to let him take charge or i might up gettin it, and hes now takin charge and im afriad of what might happen, u should tell somebody, if u are afraid something bad might happen, cuz u dont want it to get really bad, trust me    (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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These posts also question about abuse:

Original Post # 00000521
Is this abuse?
From: shauna
Remote Name: 64.118.246.22

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I have called the cops , many times when my dad has hit me. Over the years it gets worse an worse, my mom dose'nt live with us , it's just me an my dad I'm 14 going on 15 I'm a white female, my parents are devoriced an have ben since I was really young ...thow my mom lived with me an my dad up until a year or so ago. I miss my mom ,my dad hates her! he is very mad beacuse he is disabled or says he is, to collect social security ...an now my mom has started this big custady battle over me an my dad gets angry beace he has no more money to pay for a atorney ..so he got me therpist an counclers an tryed to docter me to death an has, I'm on zoloft for depression ,an meditate or a learning disabilaty , the olny reason I'm depressed is beacuse im hear with him an not with my mom. If I talk about my mom he gets mad an tells me she's a slut a crack hore an cunt why should a father tell his daughter this who loves her mom,he tells me i'm just like her I'm a slut an thats why people have a reason to call me that, beacuse I'm not a virgin an when I do something or not do something he'll call me a bitch! I would call that verbul abuse an I know it is, when my mom was living with us he would hit me for really small things droping something an still dose! as I was saying I called the cops tons of times they said if he dose'nt leave a mark on me they can do anything! witch is true i know beacuse i heard that from every cop in margate fL. thats where I live . I will allways remember the time he told my mom he was gonna kill her if she did something . An one nite I told my dad he should spend some of the child suport on me he never dose, I have to ask my mom to send an etra 150$ for me thats what she sends to suport me but it dose'nt he spends it on him self ! that nite he told me he could kill me an no one would belave he said this to me beacuse it's his word over mine ! he has slaped/back handed me to where I have gotten fat lip cousing my lip to bleed an swell , tonite he started throwing every thing in my room at me beacuse there was stuff on the floor I was crying for 3 hours hoping I don't have to live with him any more , he locks up all the phones in my house so I can't call the cops an calls them on his cell phone if i walk out the door allways saying Im gonna get in trouble not him when he his me he holds me down on my bed most of the time an hits me with what ever he can find or just his bare hand . He dose'nt let me get up an puts his nees on my arms an my head bent on the bed an hits me up to 15 times once I counted when he left the room so I could cry I lifted up my shorts an saw the big welts on my but off his hand hanger or belt! is this abuse?   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post #  00000527
Re: Is this abuse?
From: DisEnchanted
Remote Name: 24.178.169.133

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This is abuse. Don't bother calling the police, they won't solve anything. They really don't have any authority with child abuse cases except for removal of the child. Florida has that huge organization, H.R.S., right? Also, try calling 1-800-96ABUSE or go to http://www.dcf.state.fl.us/abuse/ Please do something soon. You may end up a ward of the state or inh foster care until you're 18, but it may be better than where you are. Good luck.   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 0000052a
Re: Is this abuse?
From: scorpiogirl
Remote Name: 128.227.117.40

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Shauna, I am so sorry you have to go through this. If calling those numbers don't work, you should probably talk to your guidance counselor at school. They are required, by law, to report abuse. If all else fails, I would run away to a shelter. If you need help finding one, please post again and I will help you. Please DO NOT wait any longer. Take action and take care of yourself!
(Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 0000054d
Re: Is this abuse?
From: lonerangersrchick@yahoo.com
Remote Name: 206.186.115.61

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TOTALY ABUSE. CALL YOUR MOM, TALK TO SCHOOL COUNCILORS, TALK TO YOUR BEST FRIENDS, OR ANY ONES MOM, now.  (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 00000552
Re: Is this abuse?
From: malena
Remote Name: 68.232.249.46

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Dear Shauna, I am really sorry you are in such turmoil and complete unhappiness through no direct fault of your own. Calling the police has not helped however you don't mention if you have sat down with your psychiatrist (the doctor who prescribes the zoloft) and informed him/her of what is going on in your life. Also a letter to the Presiding Judge in Family Law, Dependency Court or Social Services in your County would MOST certainly put a buffer between your abuser and you. After all you have endured and servived I would strongly recommend talking with a teen psychologist along with your Mom to help in your recovery. Most people want some type of physical lesions to show you have been abused and rush for medical solutions...however I can assure you that you have MASSIVE INTERNAL internal injuries which will need slow put steady healing to bring you back safely. Please love yourself and take your time to recooperate. Your Daddy is ill from holding on to hate and I'm hoping you can find a way to get safe. Have you ever called the domestic violence hotline?? They can be very helpful and guide your steps to safety. Sincerely, Malena (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

 

 

 

 

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