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Choosing Options: Continue to Fight in Court or Give Up

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Post #  000006b6
What is the best.
From: Jon&Krystal's Dad huckster@ccwebster.net
Remote Name: 65.182.231.101

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Whats the best thing to do, 1, stop the court fight, 2, do the 2 hour a month supervised Visitation after a 9 hour drive. 3, Let the kids go & hope that after they become adults they will want to re-connect then. I am so tired, I had court Yesterday. She was very confrontational in the Court Room. I am just    (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post #  000006bb
Re: What is the best.
From: Jon&Krystal's Dad, huckster@ccwebster.net
Remote Name: 65.182.231.63

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Krystal my Beautiful Daughter, I Love You so Very Much, I always have and I always will. ALWAYS. FOREVER, Never Ending. Jonathan my AWESOME Son. I Love You so Very Much, I always have and I always will. ALWAYS. FOREVER, NEVER ENDING.  (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

 

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Post #  000006bd
Re: What is the best.
From: mtndad
Remote Name: 66.44.197.106

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I'll step in if I may. My youngest child is 27, with two older siblings. Does it get better? Who knows, because it hasn't for me. Children aren't born with a gene that makes them hate a parent. That kind of hatred is taught, and it becomes a pervasive mental illness that carries on to subsequent generations. My grand children were born into it. I don't believe that there is a magical light that's going to come on inside the minds of my children that will make them see some truths. My children, all adults, are so emmeshed with their mother that they will never have minds or lives of their own. She can't allow it, because their total support is essential to her cause, and she will carry this fight to her grave. I wish I knew how to "let it go", but I wasn't born with a gene that allows me to erase my children from my memory and my life.   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 000006ba

Re: What is the best.
From: snuz2luz
Remote Name: 205.188.116.132

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So how do your children treat you, the alienated parent, now 20 years later? I'm hoping you can give us some hope with your outcome.  (Last changed: February 26, 2006 )

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Post #   000006bc
Re: What is the best.
From: been there done that
Remote Name: 152.163.101.9

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no communication due to all the lies the mother has told (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 000006b8
Re: What is the best.
From: been there done that
Remote Name: 152.163.100.195

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I have been through the same.. I have lived through the lies and deceit and now the fact that the lies have been perversely bred into the child's mind. I say go forth as the true tides are changing in the justice system. The alienating parent will soon be the loser in their game of destroying children. Courts are beginning to recognize PAS slowly and the movement is growing to stop people like my ex wife and yours......I lived through 20 plus years of never seeing a child......trust me the truth will prevail in the end.....the corruption within the system is being exposed and the damage it does will be stopped.......have faith!!!!!   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post #  000006e9
Re: What is the best.
From: save your money and pray......
Remote Name: 150.142.238.127

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take it from someone who paid to fight...and lost...because the family court system does not recognize pas yet... i would have rather spent the money on legislation to bring pas to law...so others will not suffer the way i have...i am a loving mother who lost her daughters once i filed for divorce. my husband was a narcissitic who mentally and verbally abused me for most of the marriage and now he has my children (ages now 13 and 21) i fought in court, and finally gave up ....i have to move on ....but the wounds are too deep. (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post #  000006e7_
Re: What is the best.
From: from mom who has not seen daughters in 2years
Remote Name: 150.142.238.127

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how could you go on living for 20 years without seeing your children grow up...it is making me sick...and affecting my health..   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 0000070b
Re: What is the best.
From: Van C. Sher
Remote Name: 68.80.253.177

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Can you get on with your life and be allowed calls? If the kid's are happy and you are allowed to communicate, do it! you can't fight your whole life for selfish reasons and you are entitled to a life. Have it.   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 00000722 
Re: What is the best.
From: miracleme7@yahoo.com
Remote Name: 209.139.23.152

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I am so sorry for what you have gone thru. I am going thru it now & love & miss my only child, who's been brainwashed by her father against me.    (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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