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Non-Custodial Mothers - Mom of lost daughters

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Post #  000005e5
mom of lost daughters
From: someone who is in alot of pain
Remote Name: 150.142.234.41

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the thought of going through the rest of my life not seeing my children grow up is unbearable. i ask myself why am i here? what have i done so wrong to deserve this? My ex abused me and my children and now he has them? i might as well be dead.   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 0000060b
Re: mom of lost daughters
From: viszun@att.net
Remote Name: 24.30.88.104

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Please don't lose hope - 18 years ago I lost custody of my son and i too thought my life was over - I couldn't even go to the mall without hating every family with children wondering why I had to be kept from my son. I decided to fight back with love and diligence. I wrote my son every day, I sent him presents ( even though I know his dad did not give them to him. and throught faith and learning to accept myself, a miracle happened. My angry selfish husband realized our son (who was three) was too much work and asked if I wanted residential custody back. My son came back a year later and my x-husband and I began to work together and today my son is 21 and loves us both. we realized our mistakes and the the hurt it created in our child. Start today - get yourself up and start working on yourself - don't become a lifetime victim - fight for your children - become strong in your spirit and when you do - somehow the universe starts helping you - but you must take the first step. I will send you as much strength and energy as I can to help. much blessings. another mom in Atlanta   (Last changed: February 26, 2006 )

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Post # 0000060d
Re: mom of lost daughters
From: Renea
Remote Name: 168.103.41.139

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You are not alone! I have been in the same situation with not seeing my three beautiful children grow up. I have so much guilt with being able to get myself away from him with my life but couldn't get them safe. TThey have so many behavior problems and express alot of hatred at me. They disappeared this last time for over 8 years, I too have such a broken heart over them.
(Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post #  00000604
Re: mom of lost daughters
From: vje.tesco.net
Remote Name: 217.137.236.40

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please dont think like that, i no its hard but you need to stay strong for your girls.  (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

 

 

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