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Non-Custodial Mothers - Mother who lost her only child

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Post # 0000051f
I am a mother who lost her only child
From: R. Sahm
Remote Name: 205.188.116.208

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I am a mother who lost her only child to PAS in a nasty divorce. He will be 16. I could not take the abuse in this 20 year marriage and filed for divorce over a year ago. I am now getting abused by my son the same way his father abused me.He lives with his Dad because he hates me. He tells me I ruined his life and he will hate me forever. His father was arrested for assault on me pending criminal charges.I dropped the charges at the advice of my attorney. I did what was best for my family, but my ex took our son last Dec and I have not seen him since. My son does not understand his father has been organizing and planning this divorce for over 2 years and I did not know until DYFS came to our home because of a false report made by my ex. He used the system and emotionally and mentally tormented me for years. I have a chronic health condition which is worsened by stress. I do not regret divorcing my exhusband I regret losing my son in the process. I cannot understand how a devoted mother can lose her only child because I could not retain counsel without counsel selling me out. I was taken advantage of in the divorce process since I had no money and was preyed upon due to my health condition by my ex husbands lawyer as well as my own. I was forced to settle in court Pro Se. I do not know how much longer I can go without seeing my son. I have joint legal custody and I am suppose to get parenting time. My heart has been broken by my baby boy every time he says horrible things to me. I was a good mom and I devoted my life to him. My son was my life and my heart is breaking... I grieve everyday for him.......I would appreciate anyone who is going through a similar situation to e-mail me RiaSahm@cs.com.    (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 00000586
Re: I am a mother who lost her only child
From: i feel your pain
Remote Name: 150.142.236.42

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i am a mom who lost 2 daughters to a monster. it feels like death to me, i have not seen or heard from them......i feel like a part of me is gone, i feel so empty inside now. we need support for this form of abuse.
(Last changed: February 26, 2006 )

 

 

 

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