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Support for Mothers Without Custody

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Post #  000006f4
Support for Mothers Without Custody
From: nancm.com
Remote Name: 71.0.233.148

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If you are a Mother Without Custody, you are not alone. NANCM believes that children have a right to BOTH parents in their life. We are NO a political or legislative Association. We are a support group of women who support each other through good times and bad; help each other through those tough "transition" times, and have formed friendships that will last a lifetime.   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 000006f8
Re: Support for Mothers Without Custody
From: i believe in GOD
Remote Name: 150.142.230.195

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I believe that god sees what is going on here, and the ex will get his...in a diffrent way. PAS is the devil  (Last changed: February 26, 2006 )

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Post # 00000726
Re: Support for Mothers Without Custody
From: miracleme7@yahoo.com
Remote Name: 209.139.23.152

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how can i be a part of the support group. this is way to hard to handle alone, & by it's very nature is shameful & alienating.  (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 00000733 
Re: Support for Mothers Without Custody
From: Hopeful Mom
Remote Name: 212.179.135.94

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Though my sons are technically "adults", and there is no "legal" issue of custody involved, it is still very painful that I have no contact with them. I would be interested in learning how to join the Support Group.   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 00000739 
Re: Support for Mothers Without Custody
From: our support group is here...right now..this website
Remote Name: 150.142.236.217

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this is it...for now....watch dateline nbc they did a story on PAS   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 0000074c
Re: Support for Mothers Without Custody
From: 
Remote Name: 66.188.70.6

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Can you please give me some information about support groups in Georgia?  (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post #  00000774
Re: Support for Mothers Without Custody
From: princessofhonesty2@yahoo.com
Remote Name: 209.151.185.11

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I am a mother of 2 young boys who the court awarded custody to their father because my ex was more financially able to take care of them and because my 4 year old had behavior problem that they said were from my lack of parenting skills. He was diganosed as being bi-polar. I am now going through hell with my ex and my children are an emotional mess. My 6 year old threatens to run away bc he wants to live with me, he acts at in class and they both get in trouble for talking about me. HELP~ B in Ohio  (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post #  0000077b
Re: Support for Mothers Without Custody
From: I need some support
Remote Name: 208.188.176.248

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Thank goodness I happened upon you. I feel so alone & inadequit. I have thought for years I suffered alone, & that loosing my kids was all my fault. I need friends to talk to. Can you please consider helping me?I am 32 yrs. old and have not seen or been allowed contact with my children in 5 yrs. My family says they have a good life and to just wait till they grow up and come looking for me. Is that right? Anyways, any help would be well recieved. Patricia Zeitler(patriciazeitler@yahoo.com  (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 000007f4
Re: Support for Mothers Without Custody
From: C
Remote Name: 24.236.77.176

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I'm sorry for what you are going through. I have been there before and find myself here once again only it's just been a few months since I've last seen my child. I have spent a lot of money and become emotionally drained after custody battles and the father alienating my child from me. My child is now a teenager. The best advice I can give you is to try to petition the court pro so (without an attorney) if you cannot afford one and are able to through your court system. Otherwise, try to send them cards, call them, etc. If the father is alienating them, do some research on what is called Parental Alienation Syndrome. Research will give you advise on how to handle the situation and what your response should be when hurtful things are said (by the father or the children to you). Your children will ALWAYS love you, regardless of any faults you may have. They need to be left out of the middle of any battles you have with the father. They need not know the "truth" about some things. Eventually, they will remember and appreciate any and all efforts you put forth to see them. In the meantime, you must concentrate on making yourself a better person. At one point in court, when being reminded of all my mistakes/bad choices in life by the father's attorney, I replied, "I've made a lot of mistakes in my life but I can't go back and change them. What I can do is work to be a better person and a better mother to my child...and I've done that." I wish you the best and will keep you in my prayers. :)   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

 

 

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