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Ex-wife and Son have more Influence over New Husband 
(but...I have his babies too!)

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Post # 00000491
my husband is a jackass.................................
From: l
Remote Name: 12.167.76.46

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when he gets mad about something, he ignores me and i'm sick of it. if he wanted a ghost, he should've married one. i bend over backwards for him and all he thinks of is himself. we've been married for 1 year as of tuesday. he's 41 and i'm 28, i guess he married me to feel young again cuz he's been nothing but a jerk ever since. the romance has died, i'm four months pregnant with our 2nd child together, (i have four all together with this one and he has 3 biologically, i have his 2nd and 3rd) what do i do? it seems like his ex-wife and son have more influence over him than i do and i'm ready to give up this marriage already. i'm sick of being ignored. i don't know what kind of midlife crisis he's going through, but i'm tired of it. does anyone have any suggestions? please help.    (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 000004bd
Re: my husband is a jackass.................................
From: 
Remote Name: 65.32.251.158

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He is way to old for you to start with. It sounds like he is going through a mid life crisis, and you were looking for a father figure. I dont know, I may be wrong.  (Last changed: February 26, 2006 )

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Post # 000005a7
Re: my husband is a jackass.................................
From: jeff_creedon@hotmail.com
Remote Name: 24.205.210.251

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I agree...be asertive of yourself...not passive, not aggressive and don't ever be passive-aggressive. Let him know your feelings, not what he's doing... I Feel ______ because when you do ______ it makes me seem ______.
(Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 0000049d
Re: my husband is a jackass.................................
From: 
Remote Name: 68.111.81.17

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I don't want to diminish how you feel, but keep in mind, when you are pregnant, you are nuts. Things that wouldn't ordinarily bother you feel like the end of the world. Try to keep this in mind. I know this is trite and everybody says this, but try to communicate with your husband. Maybe he doesn't realize his behavior. In a nonconfrontational way, tell him how you feel, what you would like from him, how you perceive the situation, etc. It could be he is completely clueless about it all. Good luck.   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

 

 

 

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