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Post #  Parental Alienation by non-custodial mom
From: [removed]
Date: 3/17/00
Time: 11:34:19 PM
Remote Name: 152.163.201.211

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I am looking for information on PAS by the non-custodial mom. We are approaching our 4 motion for change of custody. She is on her 5th attorney. There has been 3 GAL's, 5-6 therapist due to allegations of each being "bought and paid for" and a diagnosis of PAS. We need documents to support supervised or no visitation. Original decree and custody decided in 1993. Appeals all the way to the Supreme court to oust the judge have failed. Help us stop this please.  (Last changed: December 06, 2007)

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Post # 000004a1
Re: Parental Alienation by non-custodial mom
From: [removed]
Remote Name: 4.155.9.186

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I to am on non-custodial mom who was married to an attorney...if you are in this same situation then that tells it all. He has played as low and dirty as I never could of imagined. I am so tired and frustrated and I don't know if anyone can ever help me. I exhausted all of my money and even went bancrupt fighting for custody of my 3 children who are now 6,9 and 13. I currently live in Maryland...it was just so bad I needed to get away. Even though I try my best to see the kids he makes every effort to stop it. I was a stay at home Mom who loved taking care of my childrens every need only to find myself arrested from the house infront of my children for a bogus domestic violence charge. When I got out of jail there was a T.P.O. and a C.P.O. on me which ment no contact what so ever with my children...and no home or contents. I was pretty much out on the street and it has only gone down hill since then. If there is anyone who knows of something I could do...please let me know.  (Last changed: February 26, 2006 )

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Re: Parental Alienation by non-custodial mom
From: [removed]
Date: 6/29/00
Time: 11:53:59 AM
Remote Name: 24.163.228.71

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I am looking for storys like yours. I am involved with the same fight here in Oakland County, Michigan. The non-custodial mom was maried to an attorney. Could anybody with similar storys please write me.  Mike 

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Post # 00000675
Re: Parental Alienation by non-custodial mom
From: [removed]
Remote Name: 140.198.26.28

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I found a lot of information at http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/
(Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post #  000007f6
Re: Parental Alienation by non-custodial mom
From: [removed]
Remote Name: 24.236.77.176

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Although I was not married to an attorney, the exact same thing was done to me many years ago-12 years. I'm shocked at how similar our stories are. I am only now "dealing" with it. I don't know what state entered the order but if possible, act pro se (w/o an attorney) and file motions to enforce your visitation and for him to be held in contempt. If you are unable to attend court in person, and the court system allows it, you may testify by phone (in Florida, you have to be before a Notary of Public to do so). Best of luck!!! Most importantly, you must take care of yourself. Try to contact the children-through mail, e-mail, school, etc. At least they will know you are putting forth effort.   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 000007f7
Re: Parental Alienation by non-custodial mom
From: [removed]
Remote Name: 24.236.77.176

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Yes. There are many resources on-line and in the libraries about recognizing PAS and advice on how to handle and respond. Be informed.    (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 00000490
Re: Parental Alienation by non-custodial mom
From: [removed]
Remote Name: 68.53.50.11

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what about how children are coached by ex to say things that aren't true about the other parent without the children understanding the consequences? is that pas?  (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 0000053c
Re: Parental Alienation by non-custodial mom
From: [removed]
Remote Name: 64.219.197.134

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Yes, that's it.   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 0000053d
Re: Parental Alienation by non-custodial mom
From: [removed]
Remote Name: 64.219.197.134

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You are absolutely right! But how do you heal from that? How does your father heal from that? What could he have done?   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 0000002a
Re: Parental Alienation by non-custodial mom
From: [removed]
Date: 7/22/00
Time: 2:42:13 PM
Remote Name: 64.12.105.158

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Sorry it has taken this long to respond. I am the step-mother of 3 wonderful kids who have been with us for 6 years. Their mother is on attorney number 5 trying to get them back. It has been an absolute night mare. Not only for the 3 step children but for my oldest 2 daughters from my first marriage and our common denominator Andrew who is 7 years old. I met my husband in 1991 while we were both employed in our local court system. He is a deputy sheriff and at the time I was a court reporter. His X had temporary custody of the kids. After some allegations were made, we decided that our relationship was going to be long term and that we wanted the children with us because of lots of different reasons. We began a 3 year court battle. Lots of money, etc. From the very first hearing, my husband was awarded custody but she appealed all the way to the Supreme Court who refused to hear the case. During this time, we were blessed with a son whom we call our common denominator. I also had 2 daughters from my first marriage. We have an awsome family. But we struggle. The X has fought us on everything imaginable. We set limits and boundaries, she tears them down. we say no boyfriends until Jr. High, guess what, they can have boyfriends when they are in 4th grade at her house. The list goes on forever. We have a diagnosis of PAS, but the some courts are still a little sceptical about accepting it as a real "Syndrome". I would love to tell more if this is something that you think could be helpful to you. I have some suggstions for someone who is just beginning to battle this form of abuse. Let me know if you are interested. Best of Luck, Denise 

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Post # 000000e9
Re: Parental Alienation by non-custodial mom
From: [removed]
Date: 8/23/01
Time: 1:57:35 PM
Remote Name: 140.169.38.70

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I'm a 24 year-old woman who was denied the right to know my father by my SORRY, visitation denying, disappearing prostituting mother. She attempted to alienate me to hate him for 15 years. The only person I hate now at 24 is my pathetic mother. I never want to speak to her again. Don't be stupid if you deny a child the right to know their parents when they grow up they will only HATE YOU, because WE WILL FIND out and YOU WILL LOSE... ACCESS DENIAL IS CHILD ABUSE!!!
Amber  (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

 

 

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