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How can I regain contact with my kids?
(ex-wife seems to be using PAS)

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Post #  00000472
How can I regain contact with my kids?
From: Robert
Remote Name: 66.208.201.114

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I found the information on PAS and I was dumbfounded because it seems my ex-wife is doing everything described in the description. No one wants to believe me. She spread the rumor all over town that I was abusive and I never laid a hand on my children. She told my friends that I had had numerous affairs and was a member of a sex club and many other thiungs so bizarre I could not even imagine them and none of it was true. She told the kids that "Daddy's divorcing US!" and left the papers in the middle of the kitchen table for a month so they would see it every time they ate. She got 65% of joint assets and 50% of my salary yet she tells the kids that they are poor cause Daddy took all the money (She gets $5000 per month in support from me and got 400,000 in equity in the house and 125,000 savings!!!) How can I get the children to see that their mother in not telling the truth when they won't talk to me and she has all means of communication blocked? I love my kids, and all I ask for is visitation yet now they are so poisoned against me I fear I have no hope. She never once complied with a visitation schedule and stallerd it in court until my daughter was 14 and now she can decide and Mommy dearest is making sure she decides never to see me. I need HELP!!    (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post #  0000047d
Re: How can I regain contact with my kids?
From: jflrealtor@aol.com
Remote Name: 68.205.147.233

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I need help also for my son, we know she is using a local shelter for women to back her false allegations. My son has never been interviewed by anyone yet she kept the children 9 and 11 for 51 days with no contact from anyone but her and the social workers. I believe the social workers are afraid to not back her, when do we get to tell our side of the story? no divorce yet, just hearing for temporary custody. She violated first day. 
(Last changed: February 26, 2006 )

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Post #  00000474
Re: How can I regain contact with my kids?
From: Jen
Remote Name: 64.12.117.14

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I would fight for custody of your children. Don't get as far gone as we have left the situation get. Our attorney told us to fight for custody/visitaion in the begining but we misunderstood. Seeing as how this was new, the rumor had it if you paid support, you automatcally got visitation.........WELL, that isn't so. His ex was ordered to give him visitaion, she refused and without her volutary consent, we had to spend mega bucks to just get visitaion, which would have been nothing short of more allegations and flat out refusals. This was also after several moths in which we were paying our bills, her bills, child support and also being taken to court up to thre times a month. We couldn't afford it. Now the situation is just different because the kids hate him and are so brainwashed, we fill what's the use. Why make them see him if they don't want too. But I did do some research when this was going on, and I don't know where your from , but in Pa, one of the big determining factors, is which parent would be more willing to give visitaion. There was also the criminal offenses, and of course the ability to care for the children. There are actually alot of men in our area gaining custody of their children. But like I said, I wouldn't wait, because had we known then what we know now, we would have fought. Good Luck!  (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post #  00000475
Re: How can I regain contact with my kids?
From: 
Remote Name: 65.202.230.243

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Do u see the kids at all now? What are their ages?
(Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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